“hold off, Is it a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 101: trust People Are Into You | Autostraddle
The 1st episode of “Wait, So is this a Date?” is officially out wherever you hear podcasts! Join the only Christina Tucker and me as we play a profoundly private game of Fuck, U-Haul, Ghost and go over the major topic with the week: Believe folks are Into You.
We laugh! We cry! We find out about ourselves! (Okay do not weep because we are both environment signs with psychological walls, but we possess emotions.)
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PROGRAM RECORDS
+ Christina mentions that she slid into my DMs about
this
Ocean’s 11
stay browse
.
+ But we understood she actually slid into my DMs much early in the day in response for this insta story of mine:
+ Check out more fun screenshots from that first convo:
+ And listed here is whenever I asked for the woman telephone number:
+We taped this event some time back and I also would want to officially respond to my personal first FUG with fuck Jinkx, U-Haul with Symone, and ghost Carmen. (Sorry, Carmen, I adore you.)
+The
music video clip
for Colorado’ “sought after” with Alan Rickman which was formative for Christina.
+A
fun sample
of Catherine Zeta Jones’ contemporary Instagram presence. Okay
here’s another
.
+The quote we reference from
Detransition, Child
:
“Jen was actually clearly a true transsexual. Amy had never ever fulfilled a trans girl physically, and her fascination with Jen bordered in distressing. Glance at the girl. She appears to be a girl. She sounds like a woman. More than that, Amy believed, she wanted one thing from Jen. something such as sexual interest, but shaded in different ways. Anything closer to the adventure she thought whenever a hollywood passed away by. Of a nameless wishing in the direction of that celebrity. The conceptual beckoning that a-listers exude. The gravitational extract of the popularity that tugged at Amy in order for she felt nervous to get near, to be seen, and also to be respected. Feeling those celebrity vision go without friction across the easy area of a clamoring fandom, next unexpectedly get upon the lady, stop dead, and come back the woman look. That moment of common identification, that’s the only way for your own existence stamped valid, to transcend the privacy of mere lover, of inconsequential gawker. Jen’s ended up being a noncelebrity celeb that Amy could feel. A pull that possibly
just
she’d feel. Amy kept turning to see in which for the store Jen was.”
Christina:
It had been bantery and it is since you and I also both come across banter is, if you don’t the greatest thing â well, no, we simply believe it is are the latest thing.
Drew:
Yes 100%.
Christina:
I think we just find it become the hottest thing. And that I think because we had gotten along very well, we naturally dropped into a lot of banter, which for people, once again, translates into hot, cool, matchmaking, flirting vibes.
Theme tune plays
Drew:
Hi, I Am Drew.
Christina:
Hi, I’m Christina.
Drew:
And thank you for visiting,
Wait, Is This A Night Out Together?
Christina:
An Autostraddle podcast, dedicated to the question: wait, so is this go out?
Drew:
Could it be?
Christina:
Really, maybe it’s actually our job to work that away and inform the audience?
Drew:
Cool. Its early. We’re going to observe we feel by the end.
Christina:
Start, yeah.
Drew:
Cool.
Christina:
Will we need to inform individuals who we are or will we should just style of leave all of them inside the debateable dirt?
Drew:
I can go initial.
Christina:
Yeah. Tell me who you really are. I’d want to understand.
Drew:
Yeah. My name is Drew Gregory, I’m an author and filmmaker and gay and trans, not always in that purchase. I’ve created for Autostraddle since autumn of 2018. I compose many about flicks and TV, plus a great deal about matchmaking, especially matchmaking as a trans girl in lesbian neighborhood. Also almost all of the motion pictures we write are about trans lesbians, therefore a proper through range there. Oh, and if it was not clear, I love matchmaking. And most that, I adore speaking about internet dating.
Christina:
It really is one of the best aspects of you, just how much you merely like to go out and explore it and do all of these. The things I’m probably call junk, merely normally.
Drew:
Sure.
Christina:
I’m Christina Tucker. I’m also a writer at Autostraddle. I have been indeed there since 2019. I am a podcaster and author, I have made an appearance on different podcasts. We co-host a podcast known as
Unfriendly Black Hotties
about intersection of battle and higher ed and pop culture. I’m types of just on the internet, like a loud internet queer is actually the way I would typically describe my self. I, unlike Drew, dislike matchmaking and therefore all of our podcast was born, i might state. Do you state Drew?
Drew:
Yeah. I do believe that has been a fairly steady thing throughout our very own friendship usually truly certainly one of my favorite subjects plus one of the the very least favored subjects. I believe there are a lot of techniques we are virtually identical, but that is the way we are very maybe not comparable. We also, we could offer this context but, we did not truly know one another ahead of the pandemic. You had been chosen at Autostraddle autumn of 2019, while you stated, and I also realized people due to this. But then just like the very first few days with the pandemic, for whatever reason we started speaking when you look at the DMs. I don’t recall which folks slid into whoever DMs. Can you recall?
Christina:
I wish to state, We slid into the DMs because you were carrying out that table browse of
Ocean’s 11.
And that I had been like, “is actually
Ocean’s 11
the greatest movie ever produced? Discuss.” And now we had been both similar, “Yeah, it is.” Following style of from that point we actually went.
Drew:
Yeah. And we just had been messaging a whole lot. And then for some reason, really, at some point I got the phone number, and very fast into having your phone number we started sending vocals memos instead of text messages.
Drew, in voice memo:
Thus I’m simply planning reveal the thoughts that I have, and after that you may go from that point and reply to myself, perhaps not respond to myself, whatever. This will be myself getting direct and obvious.
Drew:
Hence had been kind of all of our relationship when it comes to season had been you simply for periods of time, like all day, delivering very long sound memos backwards and forwards, which we might constantly joke had been like a podcast. And then someday earlier in the day this season I became extremely stoned and delivered you a voice memo that was like, “what if we in fact had a podcast?” And the next morning, unlike, i do believe, any other time we delivered you a high vocals memo, you used to be like, “that’s actually a good idea.”
Christina:
Yeah. Most of the time, because Drew and that I go on face-to-face coasts, I-go to fall asleep and that I wake up to like one or two sound memos from Drew, sometimes large, sometimes maybe not. And in most cases I pay attention to all of them when I’m appearing out of a slumber. And I also say, “That’s my friend Drew. She’s having an event that I didn’t encounter because I’m over here asleep.” And I sorts of only progress with my time, reply once I feel like it, whether or not it’s required. Sometimes they’re just, “this will be something I was thinking about.” But this option, I said, “No, that that friend of my own is onto one thing. She’s got a proper idea taking place so we need doing this.” And then here our company is. I’m really excited though. I do believe it will be great. I think we are really enjoyable. In my opinion we’re enjoyable to talk to. And that I think you talking about online dating will likely be at least quite interesting for those to be controlled by.
Drew:
I would say-so. You will find some an ego on me personally. I am a Leo increasing and a Capricorn sunshine, so. But i actually do often think like, you are going to send me personally a voice memo referring ton’t also about myself, it isn’t about my personal ego. It’s about merely thinking you are great. And being want, “Oh my Jesus, that is fantastic. And I also wish other people had been hearing this really amusing thing Christina was actually saying.” And then all to you can!
Christina:
Well, i am also a Leo soaring. To ensure that works completely really. We understand each other well, but you, beautiful audience, do not know all of us. So we’re going to do slightly icebreaker to get to understand united states, get to know all of our vibe, become familiar with, i assume that which we’re into matchmaking wise, to tune in to this podcast and start to become updated about the style. Is the fact that appropriate?
Drew:
That seems really accurate. I really like the idea that a game of, “screw, U-Haul, Ghost” will be that revealing for our audience. But you understand what? I believe it will. In my opinion whom you would you like to screw and U-Haul and ghost with have become advising. I do believe.
Christina:
Yeah, I think very too.
Drew:
I possibly could begin.
Christina:
I think you’re start.
Drew:
Okay.
Christina:
Yeah. You’re really going to begin because you fell just a little clue yesterday in my experience that you were cackling with delight whilst were placing these with each other. Therefore I want to see that which you’ve done, ma’am.
Drew:
I recently had been like, impress, I really understand Christina so well. Oh, one other thing men and women should know about is we have now never came across.
Christina:
Oh, appropriate.!
Drew:
In-person.
Christina:
Yeah, no, we go on reverse coasts and that I do not know knowing, but we have been living on a damn, Paul Blart shopping center cop, therefore we never, wen’t came across.
Drew:
And yet, I know you so well. Therefore the first the one that i wish to start with is similar to real important. Like i am thinking years very long, Christina’s love as soon as we found and Christina’s love now. Which means that your three choices are Allison Janney.
Allison Janney:
Who is my personal little guy. You my personal little man? Which is my sixth husband immediately. The best of them.
Drew:
Michelle Gomez.
Michelle Gomez:
I Am Missy. This is paradise.
Drew:
And Jennifer Aniston.
Jennifer Aniston:
Hello Brad. You understand how adorable? I always thought you had been.
Christina:
This will be challenging. In fact, it’s not that tough. I’m going to must ghost Jen. Everyone loves Jen. I think her efforts are amazing. We are both soles so there’s very little that would take place there. And I believe that’s fantastic. I believe that’s gorgeous, but that is just not going to be what’s going to happen. Clearly, fuck, it will need to be Michelle Gomez. She’s a tiny Scottish lunatic. Her delivery information is actually peanuts. Lot of Scorpio inside, some Sag. That is going to be an enjoyable time. Daily, i am a tourist. That’s not attending work out for all of us. Therefore wewill have one merely fun evening, possibly a weekend, who is going to state, I am not sure just what parameters of your bang tend to be. But it’ll be enjoyable right after which she’s going to go-off and carry out whatever she does. And child Alice and I also are going to simply completely U-Haul, only U-Haul out. We’re going to have a great time. I know our birth maps are pretty appropriate and I believe’s good. And So I believed was going to be difficult and it ended up being actually super easy and maybeâ¦
Drew:
Great. I really like that. The point that you might present specific research about these individuals, I think is actually beautiful, and that I’m actually happy individually and Alison, that it’s in performers.
Christina:
Thank you. Thanks a lot much. For you personally, I wanted going to three points that I know you like. Very first we are undertaking a drag race edition.
Drew:
Great.
Christina:
We are performing Symone.
Symone:
Don’t let the smooth face trick you baby.
Christina:
We’re claiming Jinkx.
Jinkx:
I am Seattle’s top Jewish narcoleptic drag king.
Christina:
And then we’re stating, Carmen Carrera.
Carmen:
Raja’s obtaining naked. I’m like, this might be gonna be hot because Carmen is nudity so we’re going to toss straight down now.
Drew:
Ooh. Ok. See, i am terrible at hypothetical video games because In my opinion through them all day. Do not have many hours, so I’m planning just be sure to try this well. I think i must ghost Carmen.
Christina:
I believe you are doing as well. Which was my thought. Butâ
Drew:
I dislike to do that.
Christina:
You hate to see it.
Drew:
I am really torn between, I don’t know. Okay, and so I do know for sure that Symoneis also a Capricorn, Jinkx is actually a Virgo. I’ve actually never dated another Capricorn or a Virgo. In my opinion, okay. It is like the limits tend to be as high as I’m really attending U-Haul with this person.
Christina:
No. It really is like, you are going to leave of apartment to check out these people throughout the street being like, “Well, we heard that which you chose.” I’m sure that’s what’s happening in your thoughts now.
Drew:
I believe that i will fuck Symone and U-Haul with Jinkx. And my reasoning behind that is that I think that based on in which they may be at within their life, i believe Symone is actually, based on this recent season of drag race, still is working through some things and maybe isn’t really prepared regarding degree of an union, which will be so mean for my situation to say, but personally i think like Jinkx has already been, i do believe just got interested. Therefore within my view, if she actually is prepared get involved, very.
Christina:
I love you are getting this real world fuel in it as if me openly contacting Jennifer Anderson a base is much like, research fact.
Drew:
You might like to flip that though and point out that i ought to U-Haul with Symone. I actually don’t know if Symone’s unmarried, but Jinkx isn’t really designed for a committed relationship. Anyways, these are generally my personal views. Should we move forward?
Christina:
Yeah. This is actually a really positive thing the audience understand. This is the degree that Drewshould take every little thing we discuss. Thus merely grab yourself ready for this. She is prepared. I’m prepared. Here we go.
Drew:
Okay. Therefore next i needed to-do a male model because something that is actually fun would be that I know that despite you distinguishing as a lesbian, there’s a certain sorts of guy you are attracted to.
Christina:
Yeah, its terrible.
Drew:
So the three choices are, Roy on
Ted Lasso
as starred by Brett Goldstein.
Roy:
Jesus, Mary, and fuck face Joseph, eyes throughout the guy you’re establishing, come-on!
Drew:
Corey Ellison on
The Morning Show
as starred by Billy Crudup.
Corey:
If the guy wants to fire me, he’ll fucking shoot myself. Really don’t require this work. The only real explanation I’m doing it is simply because it really is enjoyable. I’m extremely, great at it. And it’s better to get set if you are employed.
Drew:
And Alan Rickman inside the Texas music video clip, “In Demand,” basically a tremendously certain thing i understand about Christina, that she likes that music video clip and really likes Alan Rickman in it.
Christina:
I am⦠truthfully, this is so much harder compared to basic one. I am starting to feel like i need to carry out a tremendously Drew-level, in-depth, deep dive. I eventually got to rearrange my self. Okay. Okay. Therefore the thing is actually, Alan Rickman is actually dead, thus I perform feel like i need to ghost on him, sadly, because the guy ghosted on myself 1st â around that songs movie ended up being formative for my sex, we’re going to integrate a link within tv series notes to that particular songs movie, it is deeply essential, everyone enjoy it. Absolutely an instant at a gas section, in any event. He is a ghost. Therefore I will subsequently ghost him. Now, Roy and Corey, this can be difficult. Corey doesn’t have many sexual energy if you ask me as played by Billy on
The Morning Program.
He is just similar to a chaos demon, that is certainly fun, but I don’t know, intercourse smart, if any such thing’s happening indeed there for him. It does not actually appear to be something’s on his radar actually. And so I could be lured to get married Corey and have now every night of love with Roy Kent, then proceed. Keep him to Keeley while he is deserving of, and continue on with Cory where he’s operating a network of some sort. Yeah. I do believe that’s the response. I think it really is ghost Alan Rickman, exactly who, become obvious, ghosted myself first. Fuck Corey Ellison. Nope. Hold off, was that a Freudian slip? Difficult to state. No, it wasn’t. I simply forgot. Fuck Roy Kent. Marry Cory Ellison. Wow. I am sweating. That has been frustrating. That was very difficult. Alright. For your needs, obviously, I had to do an actor’s release for the reason that who you are as someone. Therefore we’ve got Lola Rodriguez.
Lola Rodriguez:
[Speaking in Spanish]
Christina:
Indya Moore.
Indya Moore:
Its more challenging to occur than it is to walk within this outfit.
Christina:
And Jamie Clayton.
Jamie Clayton:
Oh, think about it. Girls must love that wall that you have created. But honestly, I’m stoked you are right here. If only your whole club ended up being full of girls like you.
Drew:
Wow. Okay.
Christina:
Since it looks like, I know you too, buddy.
Drew:
I truly like the commitment to trans stars, additionally.
Christina:
Yeah, dog. Again, I say I’m sure you.
Drew:
Okay. It’s thus amusing if it is queer actors, trans stars, where i am want, “I’m going to fulfill you at a celebration at some point and I’m browsing feel dissapointed about whatever We say about you online.” My goal is to ghost Jamie because she is directly.
Christina:
Fair sufficient.
Drew:
So when much as I like⦠I don’t fall for cis direct women, but i actually do be seduced by trans straight girls. And that I think is actually my personal correct as a gay trans woman.
Christina:
Yeah. It is.
Drew:
But i am however browsing ghost Jamie because In my opinion it’s simply better in my situation to not you will need to do that. I believe i’ll bang Lola Rodriguez because I really don’t really understand if⦠I don’t know simply how much English she speaks and I don’t talk Spanish. Therefore I genuinely believe that⦠after all, whenever we U-Hauled, In my opinion we would learn and that might be excellent.
Christina:
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